To success it is important to use all the tools yu can. Meeting the person is a great help especially when you have the morphopsychological background. So you do not "feel" but you know really with this inverstigation tool so called orphopsychology. Does anybody want to know more about this method ?
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Gilbert PRIEUR, entrepreneur, Nemopsy
| 08 Feb 2010 10:15 AM +0000
Emails, cell phones, econferencing, teleconferencing, video conferencing is fine, amazing tools to set the ball rolling in the right direction, but for me physical contact means a lot. I need to shake hands with the person I am willing to do business with. I need to see the person behind all the writing. This rises from the fact that I believe in vibes emanating form the physical self of the person. They teach me a lot in terms of the persons demeanor, body language, focus of the eyes and any other small nuance that would reveal the personality of the person that I am dealing with. Thanks for the referral Resmi :)
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Makrand Bhave, Marketing & MICE, WIZCRAFT International
| 08 Feb 2010 05:52 AM +0000
There is a fair amount of homework to be done before the process of negotiations commence. Familiarization with the other party, their style of negotiations (if possible), etc are important. A handshake tells us a lot about the person we are to negotiate with. During negotiations, the body language of the other party reveals the emotions/ stress/ thought process. A VC (Video Conference) is also as good as meeting, but meeting in person is probably the best. A meeting strikes a personal bond/ enables to feel the vibes of the other party which can never happen through a tele con or VC.
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Ajay Chaudhari, Chief Executive Officer, Adroit Consultants
| 08 Feb 2010 05:20 AM +0000
Hey who speaks about judging persons? I do thonk that it is easier to deal with people when meeting them. Meeting people is better to understand (not judging).
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Gilbert PRIEUR, entrepreneur, Nemopsy
| 23 Dec 2009 10:16 AM +0000
Some are afraid to let their emotinal reaction change their intellectual way of acting. Isn't life made so ? Why things should be so different in busines relationshisp? Morphopsychology gives a great help to know people and understand them. Don't be afraid to meet people that makes life more valuable and rich! I do support this way of thinking about even busines relations
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Gilbert PRIEUR, entrepreneur, Nemopsy
| 23 Dec 2009 10:14 AM +0000
As a morphopsychologist, face to face relation helps me to understand people and it helps me getting confident. I'm convinced nothing can replace words but what I learn seeing a person is really a great help. But of course I talk as an expert and I'd like many of you were experts too. Just ask for it
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Gilbert PRIEUR, entrepreneur, Nemopsy
| 16 Dec 2009 12:48 PM +0000
It is important becasue, in negotiation impressions matters and help you understand better what you have to do to win the other side also cralify better the negotiating terms.
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Peter R. Thadeo, Partner, Decorum Attorneys
| 16 Dec 2009 09:33 AM +0000
There are two scenarios. 1) First Time engagement 2) Countinued engagement In a first time engament the nego should be sitting across the table and should be face to face. On a countinued engagement you have become a trusted vendor and your customer need not require your presence.
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Manoj , Branch Manager/Regional Manager Path Infotech Ltd
| 16 Dec 2009 07:40 AM +0000
while negotiating one need to present his/her stance with complete confidence .our confidence get conveyed through eye contact .since ,terms and conditions of an agreement always subjected to contention(to an certain extent)both if involved passively in a conversation , may reach to an consensus which is mutually agreed upon but one cannot be certain about the longevity of the relationship which is a prime factor in business (esp. in SMEs ).moreover, a lot can assesed about person when involved personally 'coz body languages reflects the overall persona of a person.foremost, one is paying the required attention to details get showed up through eye contact.
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kawaljit kaur, pgdbm student , Mount Carmel Institute of Management
| 15 Nov 2009 04:38 PM +0000
When you read important you don't understand that without seeing the face of a person you cannot negociate at all. I think that important can mean essential but it can mean also very useful, of great help. Of course you can talk and even understand and know people without seeing them but it helps, doen't it ?
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Gilbert PRIEUR, entrepreneur, Nemopsy
| 15 Nov 2009 02:28 PM +0000
Voice reading as a tool can be used when there is no option.Given a choice it is always better to have a face to face negotiation.Body language says more than what a voice can say.
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Mohan , Director, Spatik Consultants P.Ltd
| 11 Nov 2009 06:38 AM +0000
Negotiating is not about arguing if the price is right or not, if the agreement is accepted or rejected ? it is all about understanding an individual and modifying the terms and condition of the deal depending on the individuals behavior, comfort. In early days of my career i have done deals over the phone with one of the top IT brand of India, but today i am not able to capitalise on the same as i never had an opportunity to meet the individual who happend to be one of the decision maker of the company. So today i regret. Face is very much important in case of a business deal, irrespective of the deal going through or not.
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Kiran Jain, Senior manager Key Corporates, HDFC Bank Ltd
| 10 Nov 2009 06:01 PM +0000
When you see the face of the person you can understand his way of thinking and behavioring so you better understand what he says and why he say it. Morphopsychology helps me that's why a put a photo on my profile
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Gilbert PRIEUR, entrepreneur, Nemopsy
| 10 Nov 2009 09:33 AM +0000
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a photo will not substitute one to one interaction. however the interaction over the telephone can give a 60 % insight to the personality and his way of thinking. This can be useful esp when time matters and also preparing for the one to one discussion to finalise.
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Winsome Thomas, Agency Manager, MetLife Insurance Co
| 07 Feb 2010 07:59 PM +0000
Negotiations or meetings are always executed using words, which can taken across the other negotiater(s) through voice or written/typed words. Visual of the person is just sometimes an added factor. Judging a person through snaps is not the right and appropriate way to bulid the personality of a person. Looks can sometimes deceive the eyes. For instance, the first stage of an interview is a telephonic interview, after which, if impressed, the person is called for further stages. Hence it is important that we do not judge a person by a snap, rather understand the qualities of a person which can give meaningful perspectives to your meetings or negotiations. Thank you.
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SHIBA KURIAN, Editor-in-charge, Sathyam Service Trust
| 15 Nov 2009 02:51 PM +0000
I don't think it is really important as long as you know the reputation of the representatives or of the firm at the other end. However, it might just be a different game if the representative can be seen.
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Hari Prasad K, Head - Custom Solutions and Delivery
| 15 Nov 2009 01:48 PM +0000
Literally face is the index of mind which gives you glimpse of overall personality ; but at the time of negotiating the voice and glint of eyes gives the signal as what currently is in the mind in terms of confidence;speculations;apprehensions....... and what not. We can say it gives us micro gestures....... The style of walking , sense of dressing, shoes , tackling problems also gives us the sense of temperament.
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Manish Grover, Sales Executive/Officer, Pugmarks Interweb Pvt Ltd.
| 10 Nov 2009 11:12 AM +0000
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